There is no “normal” when it comes to sexuality. This course will help you understand your unique relationship with desire and develop a personal approach to fostering more of it.
Whether you’re stressed, struggling with deeply ingrained stories and stereotypes, or simply unsure about what you enjoy, there’s a reason desire is so hard to access. Start uncovering why you’re blocked.
Change comes when our conversations about desire are more kind than critical. Discover the art of sexual candor, plus scripts to help you practice asking for more of what you want.
Pleasure doesn’t do well under pressure. Use your newfound knowledge to break out of mundane routines and invite the vibrancy of erotic play back into your life.
Taught by Esther Perel
Whether you feel stuck in a sexless relationship, frustrated by your new lack of desire, or motivated to embrace eroticism and transform your relationship—this course is for you.
Learn how to create open and affirmative spaces where you and your partner can embrace the erotic, explore your desires, and engage in candid conversations about sex and desire.
Though it may feel risky to think about leaving your familiar routines, doing something risky together often generates excitement. Discover how to compound on this excitement to remove the barriers to sexual satisfaction in the long-term.
Insecurity and vulnerabilities swirl around our sexual selves. Map your Erotic Blueprint to better understand your sexual history and desire, then start exploring your unique relationship with eroticism.
In a format that works
Perfect for bringing desire back into date night.
- High quality videos
- INTERACTIVE WORKBOOK
- PLAYFUL PROMPTS AND IDEAS
- conversation catalysts
Course Curriculum
In this module, you'll learn the most common sexual myths and misconceptions, identify the ones you struggle with most, and begin to redefine sex in a helpful, more personalized way.
In this module, you'll discover how to use sexual candor to have more honest conversations about sex and desire. You’ll also map your Erotic Blueprint and practice using your new communication skills to share the results with your partner.
In this module, you’ll pair your new insights into desire and eroticism with willingness, a low-stakes way to invite more erotic encounters into your relationship.
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This is the perfect place to begin if you’re feeling stuck in a sexual rut. This course is designed for people in relationships that need a sexual revival.
Bringing Desire Back
This is the perfect place to begin if you’re feeling stuck in a sexual rut. This course is designed for people in relationships that need a sexual revival
The Desire Bundle
Get both Bringing Desire Back and Playing With Desire and gain the skills to not just address desire discrepancies — but to own your desire and begin erotic play.
Frequently asked questions
Your purchase of Bringing Desire Back includes access for both you and your partner. We invite you to watch the videos together and share the log-in credentials, if necessary. We are not able to provide a separate log-in. If your partner requires access in a separate account, please have them purchase the course.
A relationship is made up of the people within it. When one of those people changes, the dynamic of the relationship also changes. If your partner is unwilling or unable to join you in learning about desire, you will still benefit from learning this material on your own.
Bringing Desire Back is a collection of lessons and exercises from Esther and includes a downloadable workbook. She will not be providing real-time therapy or feedback to course participants.
When you purchase Bringing Desire Back, you’ll get a collection of lessons and exercises from Esther that includes a downloadable workbook. We recommend that you plan a time to watch each video, read andy additional material, and complete the accompanying exercises before moving on to the next lesson.
If you are completing the course with a partner, we suggest watching the videos together and working through the exercises individually. After you have both completed the exercises, come back together to share your responses and have a conversation about your answers and relationship.
If you treat this course as entertainment to be consumed, you may find it entertaining and pick up some new perspectives along the way. On the other hand, if you treat this course as a guide for engaging in new behaviors, thoughts, and ideas, and you take the time to complete each exercise in the accompanying workbook, it’s our hope that you’ll learn something truly new, deeply interesting, and incredibly valuable that will help you navigate relationships of all kinds for the rest of your life.
If you watch all the videos and complete all the exercises, it should take you 5–10 hours to complete the entire course.
While many of Esther’s other materials touch on desire and eroticism, Bringing Desire Back is a deep dive into unlocking desire. Through video lessons and a downloadable workbook, you’ll learn skills to help you remove sexual blocks and reignite desire, no matter where you’re starting from.
Bringing Desire Back is for individuals in relationships and romantic partners experiencing erotic blocks, lack of desire or desire discrepancies, or challenges in sexual communication who want to remove erotic blocks and reignite desire.
Playing with Desire is for individuals in relationships and romantic partners seeking to tap into new erotic possibilities and bring more aliveness, vitality, and spontaneity into the relationship.
Both courses are designed for people in relationships, though they can be taken with or without a partner.
As excited as we are to share Bringing Desire Back with you, we believe the materials inside Rekindling Desire are more than enough to help you remove sexual blocks, reignite desire, and discover new erotic possibilities. If you’re interested in learning more about desire and eroticism, we invite you to revisit the materials inside Rekindling Desire rather than purchasing this new course. Click here to log in to your account and access those materials now.
Though you would likely benefit tremendously from this course, Bringing Desire Back is designed for people in relationships. It can be taken with or without a partner.
While Bringing Desire Back is absolutely appropriate and supportive as a supplemental aid, I invite you to work with a trained relational psychotherapist and your medical provider for personalized support. If you wish to expand and enhance your experience of eroticism in its many forms (including the non-sexual), this course will help you remove the shame and stigma that often blocks erotic satisfaction and reignite desire. Though I briefly acknowledge the many medical issues that may negatively influence desire in this course, Bringing Desire Back is not designed to diagnose or treat medical conditions.
Bringing Desire Back is designed to help only those interested in reigniting desire and enhancing eroticism in their relationship. If you or your partner identify as asexual, know that asexuality is a legitimate sexual orientation; this lack of desire is not something to be overcome. However, it cannot be denied that one partner’s asexual identity can greatly impact a non-asexual partner. Though Bringing Desire Back might help you navigate necessary and difficult conversations, I invite you to instead consider working with a trained relational psychotherapist specializing in asexuality. They will be able to help you explore the many other arrangements that may be necessary for your unique situation.