Playing with Desire

Uncover and learn how to speak about your desires. Bring more aliveness into your sex life. Create rich, erotic rituals. Cultivate a more vibrant and fulfilling erotic relationship.
PERFECT FOR DATE NIGHT
Playful exercises and prompts to tap into new erotic possibilities
Based on the same processes Esther has used to help real couples for 40+ years
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What You Gain
Learn how to unlock eroticism for more satisfying sexual experiences.

More sex does not equal better sex. This course will help you create more pleasurable erotic experiences together.

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Get To Know Your Erotic Self

Our sexuality is influenced by every aspect of our lives. Uncover your unique sexual stories, appetites, and preferences, then build on them to discover new erotic possibilities.

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Discover Multiple Paths to Pleasure

There’s more than one route to pleasure and erotic satisfaction. Learn how to bring more aliveness, vitality, and spontaneity into your sex life through fantasy, ritual, and more.

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Learn How To Communicate What You Want

Sexual candor is key to clear communication. Discover scripts and exercises to help you practice asking for what you want, giving your partner what they want, and more.

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Get To Know Your Erotic Self

Our sexuality is influenced by every aspect of our lives. Uncover your unique sexual stories, appetites, and preferences, then build on them to discover new erotic possibilities.

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Discover Multiple Paths to Pleasure

There’s more than one route to pleasure and erotic satisfaction. Learn how to bring more aliveness, vitality, and spontaneity into your sex life through fantasy, ritual, and more.

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Learn How To Communicate What You Want

Sexual candor is key to clear communication. Discover scripts and exercises to help you practice asking for what you want, giving your partner what they want, and more.

Taught by Esther Perel

Esther has helped millions improve their lives and relationships. Now, she’s offering a new way for you to gain access to her thoughtful and unique perspective. Her self-paced courses will spark new insights and help you improve your relational intelligence.
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Who it's for

Whether you’re looking for fresh ideas for enhancing intimacy, guidance for how to have more open conversations about sex, or permission to enjoy even more pleasure—this course is for you.

Couples who are having sex but want more fulfilling erotic encounters.
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Couples Seeking Deeper Sexual Connection

In order to want sex, it needs to be sex worth wanting. Learn how to use curiosity and willingness to foster eroticism, increase desire, and create more satisfying experiences together.

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Partners Seeking New Erotic Routines

Desire requires a sense of mystery to thrive. Breathe new life into your daily routines by creating erotic rituals unique to your relationship and desires.

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Couples Seeking Playful Experiences

Play is at the heart of eroticism. Discover and explore each others’ pleasure points with the help of playful prompts and hands-on exercises.

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Couples Seeking Deeper Sexual Connection

In order to want sex, it needs to be sex worth wanting. Learn how to use curiosity and willingness to foster eroticism, increase desire, and create more satisfying experiences together.

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Partners Seeking New Erotic Routines

Desire requires a sense of mystery to thrive. Breathe new life into your daily routines by creating erotic rituals unique to your relationship and desires.

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Couples Seeking Playful Experiences

Play is at the heart of eroticism. Discover and explore each others’ pleasure points with the help of playful prompts and hands-on exercises.

In a format that works

Perfect for enhancing erotic intimacy on date night.

  • High quality videos
  • INTERACTIVE WORKBOOK
  • PLAYFUL PROMPTS AND IDEAS
  • conversation catalysts

Course Curriculum

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Module 1: Becoming An Erotic Couple
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Module 2: Awakening the Senses
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Module 3: You & Me & Us
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Why It Works
Uncover your specific wants to create uniquely erotic experiences.
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Builds On Your Unique Sexual History
By mapping your Erotic Blueprint first, you’ll be able to make the most of each lesson, self-reflection, and interactive exercise throughout the course.
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Focused On Finding What Feels Good To You
Esther invites you to lead with open curiosity and willingness to see where things go. Each insight, suggestion, and exercise is a next step you can take toward a more vibrant erotic relationship that you define for yourself.
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Offers Bite-Sized Lessons & Ideas
Discover eye-opening insights in a digestible format. Each lesson offers easy-to-implement suggestions for embracing eroticism and revitalizing your sexual connection.
Why It Works
Uncover your specific wants to create uniquely erotic experiences.
Uncover your specific wants to create uniquely erotic experiences.
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Builds On Your Unique Sexual History
By mapping your Erotic Blueprint first, you’ll be able to make the most of each lesson, self-reflection, and interactive exercise throughout the course.
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Focused On Finding What Feels Good To You
Esther invites you to lead with open curiosity and willingness to see where things go. Each insight, suggestion, and exercise is a next step you can take toward a more vibrant erotic relationship that you define for yourself.
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Offers Bite-Sized Lessons & Ideas
Discover eye-opening insights in a digestible format. Each lesson offers easy-to-implement suggestions for embracing eroticism and revitalizing your sexual connection.
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Builds On Your Unique Sexual History
By mapping your Erotic Blueprint first, you’ll be able to make the most of each lesson, self-reflection, and interactive exercise throughout the course.
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Focused On Finding What Feels Good To You
Esther invites you to lead with open curiosity and willingness to see where things go. Each insight, suggestion, and exercise is a next step you can take toward a more vibrant erotic relationship that you define for yourself.
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Offers Bite-Sized Lessons & Ideas
Discover eye-opening insights in a digestible format. Each lesson offers easy-to-implement suggestions for embracing eroticism and revitalizing your sexual connection.

What early reviewers are saying about the course ...

Start enhancing your erotic relationships today.

This is the perfect place to begin if you’re feeling stuck in a sexual rut. This course is designed for people in relationships that need a sexual revival.

Playing with Desire

This is the perfect place to begin if you’re feeling stuck in a sexual rut. This course is designed for people in relationships that need a sexual revival

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The Desire Bundle

Get both Bringing Desire Back and Playing With Desire and gain the skills to not just address desire discrepancies — but to own your desire and begin erotic play.

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Frequently asked questions

If participating with my partner, do we need to register for two courses?
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What if I want to start the course, but my partner is not on board?
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Will I get one-on-one advice from Esther?
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How does this course work? How should I use it?
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How long will the course take?
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How does this course differ from Esther’s other courses and products?
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Should I take Bringing Desire Back or Playing with Desire?
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If I have Rekindling Desire, should I purchase this course?
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Is this course for me if I’m single or not currently in a relationship?
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Does this course address medical issues that block desire?
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Does this course address asexuality?
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esther's guarantee
If this doesn't improve your relationship, get your money back.
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This course was created with usefulness in mind. If you watch the videos, do the exercises, and find that you haven’t gained useful insights that improve your relationship, we offer a 30-day money-back guarantee.