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How to be Assertive Without Being Aggressive

Power dynamics and what it means to be in control has changed over time. In today's social context, how can we navigate the line between dialogue and debate?

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The Language of Gender: Beyond Boy and Girl

Esther explores the importance of language in our experience of gender.

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What Does it Mean to be a Man?

A reader asks about how to handle his feelings of inadequacy after circumstances force him to become a stay-at-home dad.

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A Man's Secret: Performance Anxiety

For many men, identity and self-esteem are bound up with sexuality. In this context performance anxiety can be extremely destabilizing. How then to deal with this common issue? 

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Free Resource: Your Intimacy Inventory

Let's talk about desire. Esther's intimacy inventory is a free resource that will help you start important conversations about love and sexuality. 

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