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Sessions Online Salon

Sessions is my online educational salon for professionals who work with couples or in the realm of intimate relationships. Each month, learn from the most innovative names in couples therapy and in issues related to intimate relationships and sexuality. 

My relationship has lost its spark. Is there anything I can do?

Rekindling Desire

Rekindling Desire is my comprehensive course based on the bestseller Mating in Captivity. I have channeled years of therapy, dialogue, and learning into creating a course that seeks to give you an insider's view into my approach. 

I would like to be among the first to read Esther's new book.

The State of Affairs

In The State of Affairs, I take a look at modern relationships through the lens of infidelity. Affairs have a lot to teach us about the human heart. Through examining illicit love from multiple angles, I invite you into an honest exploration of coupling in all its many variations.

I would like to learn more about relationships, sex, and intimacy.

Mating in Captivity

My debut work on the intricacies behind modern relationships, and the dichotomy of domesticity and sexual desire. I published this book in 2006, and I am consistently grateful for the dialogue, exploration, and understanding that has followed. 

Free Resource: Your Intimacy Inventory

Let's talk about desire. Esther's intimacy inventory is a free resource that will help you start important conversations about love and sexuality. 

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The 3 Types of Relationship Fights You Keep Having—And What To Do About Them

Your relationship arguments aren't always about what you think they are. Read more to learn about the three hidden dimensions under most relationship fights and how to break the loop.

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Letters from Esther #18: Questions That Meet People Where They Are Now

My monthly newsletter and workshop is meant to inspire you to reflect, act, and develop greater confidence and relational intelligence in all of your relationships. This month's theme is: Questions That Meet People Where They Are Now.

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How Erotic Thinking Helps Emotional Connection

Creativity is where Eroticism lives. No matter how effective our routines have been—or how much we’ve even enjoyed them—if they’re not filled with creativity, they inevitably leave us numb. Read more on how eroticism helps emotional connection.

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Looking to connect (or re-connect) to intimacy, curiosity, and sensuality in your life? 

Sign up for Rekindling Desire, an online workshop for individuals and couples. Get Esther's world-class guidance and unlimited access to: 4 hours of content (twenty-four videos, downloadable mp3s, downloadable written transcripts) + Fifteen exercises

Learn more about Rekindling Desire