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Sessions Online Salon

Sessions is my online educational salon for professionals who work with couples or in the realm of intimate relationships. Each month, learn from the most innovative names in couples therapy and in issues related to intimate relationships and sexuality. 

My relationship has lost its spark. Is there anything I can do?

Rekindling Desire

Rekindling Desire is my comprehensive course based on the bestseller Mating in Captivity. I have channeled years of therapy, dialogue, and learning into creating a course that seeks to give you an insider's view into my approach. 

I would like to be among the first to read Esther's new book.

The State of Affairs

In The State of Affairs, I take a look at modern relationships through the lens of infidelity. Affairs have a lot to teach us about the human heart. Through examining illicit love from multiple angles, I invite you into an honest exploration of coupling in all its many variations.

I would like to learn more about relationships, sex, and intimacy.

Mating in Captivity

My debut work on the intricacies behind modern relationships, and the dichotomy of domesticity and sexual desire. I published this book in 2006, and I am consistently grateful for the dialogue, exploration, and understanding that has followed. 

Free Resource: Your Intimacy Inventory

Let's talk about desire. Esther's intimacy inventory is a free resource that will help you start important conversations about love and sexuality. 

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Letters from Esther #13: Are Taboos Holding Your Relationship Back?

My monthly newsletter and free workshop are meant to inspire you to reflect, act, and develop greater confidence and relational intelligence in all of your relationships. This month's theme is: Are Taboos Holding Your Relationship Back?

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Why Do Sexual Taboos Make Up Our Sexual Fantasies?

Is your sexual fantasy normal? In short, yes. Our sexual fantasies, and the taboos they contain, are symbolic maps of our deepest needs and wishes. Accessing that vulnerability can turn our sex lives from a ledger into something so much greater, but getting there is a taboo in and of itself. It means talking about it. Read more about sexual fantasies and how they're more normal than you may think.

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Letters from Esther #12: How Your Relationships Will Change

My monthly newsletter and free workshop series is meant to inspire you to reflect, act, and develop greater confidence and relational intelligence in all of your relationships. This month's theme is: How Your Relationships Will Change.

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Looking to connect (or re-connect) to intimacy, curiosity, and sensuality in your life? 

Sign up for Rekindling Desire, an online workshop for individuals and couples. Get Esther's world-class guidance and unlimited access to: 4 hours of content (twenty-four videos, downloadable mp3s, downloadable written transcripts) + Fifteen exercises

Learn more about Rekindling Desire