Turning Conflict Into Connection

Uncover why you keep having the same fights over and over again. Learn how to break free from habitual patterns and responses. Find peace and reconciliation even when you disagree.
Gain new insights in just one hour.
Downloadable workbook filled with guided exercises.
Improve conflicts with or without a partner.
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What You Gain
Conflict is intrinsic to every relationship. Learn how to make it productive.

There is no one-size-fits-all solution to relationships. This course helps you understand your own unique history and develop a personal approach.

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Learn What Causes Conflicts

Join Esther as she helps you unpack the real reasons you’re fighting, so you can address the issues head on.

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Understand Your Reactions

Whether you blow up, shut down, or avoid conflict altogether, there’s a reason for it. Start uncovering why.

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Gain Skills To Break Free From Old Patterns

Use your new found knowledge to learn how to reconcile, repair, and find peace even when you disagree.

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Learn What Causes Conflicts

Join Esther as she helps you unpack the real reasons you’re fighting, so you can address the issues head on.

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Understand Your Reactions

Whether you blow up, shut down, or avoid conflict altogether, there’s a reason for it. Start uncovering why.

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Gain Skills To Break Free From Old Patterns

Use your new found knowledge to learn how to reconcile, repair, and find peace even when you disagree.

Taught by Esther Perel

Esther has helped millions improve their lives and relationships. Now, she’s offering a new way for you to gain access to her thoughtful and unique perspective. Her self-paced courses will spark new insights and help you improve your relational intelligence.
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Who it's for

Whether your pattern is to shut down, blow up, or avoid conflict altogether—this course is for you.

People ready to improve their relational skills.
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Couples Seeking Connection

Even couples that don’t “fight” have conflict. This course will show you how to embrace, work with, and better respond to disagreements when they arise.

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Couples Stuck in Conflict

If you respond the same way every time a problem arises — we’ll help you identify and break the patterns keeping you stuck.

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Individuals Seeking Growth

If you’re seeking change, the best place to start is with yourself. This course will help you grow your capacity for productive conflicts, with or without a partner.

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Couples Seeking Connection

Even couples that don’t “fight” have conflict. This course will show you how to embrace, work with, and better respond to disagreements when they arise.

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Couples Stuck in Conflict

If you respond the same way every time a problem arises — we’ll help you identify and break the patterns keeping you stuck.

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Individuals Seeking Growth

If you’re seeking change, the best place to start is with yourself. This course will help you grow your capacity for productive conflicts, with or without a partner.

In a format that works

Designed to meet you wherever you are in your relational journey.

  • High quality videos
  • INTERACTIVE WORKBOOK
  • PLAYFUL PROMPTS AND IDEAS
  • conversation catalysts

Course Curriculum

1
The Choreography Of Conflict
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2
The Real Reasons You Fight
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3
Creating New Opportunities and Options
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4
How To Reconcile and Repair
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Why It Works
Learn how to manage your differences, not see them as problems.
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Builds On Your Unique History
Learn what you do and why. There are no cookie-cutter steps. It’s as unique as you.
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Focused On What You Can Control
You can’t change your partner, but you can change the pattern. You’ll learn how.
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Designed To Meet You Where You Are
The perfect place to start, or to continue, working on your relationship.
Why It Works
Learn how to manage your differences, not see them as problems.
Learn how to manage your differences, not see them as problems.
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Builds On Your Unique History
Learn what you do and why. There are no cookie-cutter steps. It’s as unique as you.
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Focused On What You Can Control
You can’t change your partner, but you can change the pattern. You’ll learn how.
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Designed To Meet You Where You Are
The perfect place to start, or to continue, working on your relationship.
Card Image
Builds On Your Unique History
Learn what you do and why. There are no cookie-cutter steps. It’s as unique as you.
Card Image
Focused On What You Can Control
You can’t change your partner, but you can change the pattern. You’ll learn how.
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Designed To Meet You Where You Are
The perfect place to start, or to continue, working on your relationship.

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Frequently asked questions

If participating with my partner, do we need to register for two courses?
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esther's guarantee
If this doesn't improve your relationship, get your money back.
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This course was created with usefulness in mind. If you watch the videos, do the exercises, and find that you haven’t gained useful insights that improve your relationship, we offer a 30-day money-back guarantee.