There is no one-size-fits-all solution to relationships. This course helps you understand your own unique history and develop a personal approach.
Join Esther as she helps you unpack the real reasons you’re fighting, so you can address the issues head on.
Whether you blow up, shut down, or avoid conflict altogether, there’s a reason for it. Start uncovering why.
Use your new found knowledge to learn how to reconcile, repair, and find peace even when you disagree.
Taught by Esther Perel
Whether your pattern is to shut down, blow up, or avoid conflict altogether—this course is for you.
Even couples that don’t “fight” have conflict. This course will show you how to embrace, work with, and better respond to disagreements when they arise.
If you respond the same way every time a problem arises — we’ll help you identify and break the patterns keeping you stuck.
If you’re seeking change, the best place to start is with yourself. This course will help you grow your capacity for productive conflicts, with or without a partner.
In a format that works
Designed to meet you wherever you are in your relational journey.
- High quality videos
- INTERACTIVE WORKBOOK
- PLAYFUL PROMPTS AND IDEAS
- conversation catalysts
Course Curriculum
Conflict is a part of every relationship. There is a difference, however, between “constructive” fighting that is useful and “destructive” fighting that is problematic. We’ll learn the difference and the three main fighting styles.
Couples are often so focused on what they're fighting about, they fail to address what they're fighting for. In this Module, you'll identify which hidden dimension is causing your fights to escalate so you can zoom out and gain new perspective.
In this Module you'll learn strategies for de-escalating. You'll uncover you and your partners communication and conflict patterns, so you can choose new options.
Learn how to make a real apology that heals the wounds of conflict. These frameworks will help you live in harmony despite disagreements.
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Turning Conflict Into Connection
This is the perfect place to begin if you’re feeling stuck in a sexual rut. This course is designed for people in relationships that need a sexual revival
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Frequently asked questions
Your purchase of Turning Conflict Into Connection includes access for both you and your partner. We invite you to watch the videos together and share the log-in credentials, if necessary. We are not able to provide a separate log-in. If your partner requires access in a separate account, please have them purchase the course.
A relationship is made up of the people within it. When one of those people changes, the dynamic of the relationship also changes. If your partner is unwilling or unable to join you in learning about desire, you will still benefit from learning this material on your own.
Turning Conflict Into Connection is a self-paced course with exercises created by, but not directed by Esther. She will not be providing real-time therapy or feedback to course participants.
When you purchase Turning Conflict Into Connection, you'll receive a collection of lessons and exercises along with a robust workbook. We recommend that you plan time to watch each lesson and complete the accompanying exercise before moving on to the next lesson.
If you are completing the course with a partner, we suggest watching the videos together and working through the exercises individually. After you have both completed the exercises, come back together to share your responses and have a conversation about your answers and relationship.
If you treat this course as entertainment to be consumed, you may find it entertaining and pick up some new perspectives along the way. On the other hand, if you treat this course as a guide for engaging in new behaviors, thoughts, and ideas, and you take the time to complete each exercise, it’s our hope that you’ll learn something truly new, deeply interesting, and incredibly valuable that will help you navigate relationships of all kinds for the rest of your life.
Whether you binge the course, work through the exercises as an intensive study for date night, or stretch it out over weeks or months is up to you. Do what is best for you.
If you watch all the videos and complete all the exercises, it should take you 5–10 hours to complete the entire course.