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The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity




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Why Happy People Cheat

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I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I’ve dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.

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Stop Bickering. It's Killing Your Relationship

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I think of bickering as low intensity chronic warfare. Ongoing criticism can lead to the demise of the relationship. In this video from my Moments advice series, we look at the common act of bickering, its profound impact on our relationships, and how to kick the habit. 

Stop Bickering. It's Killing Your Relationship

I think of bickering as low intensity chronic warfare. Ongoing criticism can lead to the demise of the relationship. In this video from my Moments advice series, we look at the common act of bickering, its profound impact on our relationships, and how to kick the habit. 

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In The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity, I take a look at modern relationships through the lens of infidelity. 

Preorder the book, I will send you an advance copy of the Introduction, Chapter One, and unpublished sections that didn't make it into the final cut. 

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Podcasting an Affair: Episode One

My reflections on Episode One of Where Should We Begin, entitled "I've Had Better".

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Infidelity: Why I Wrote a Book About America's Most Controversial Topic

I knew that writing my new book The State of Affairs would be met with strong reactions on all sides. So why step into the fire?

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Finding "The One"

Does "the One" exist? And what does this phrase mean in the context of a new dating reality, with all of the choice and lack of certainty it presents?

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