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The quality of our relationships (whether personal, professional, or intimate) have a massive impact on the quality of our lives. It is in this framework that Esther approaches public speaking and workshops. 

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The Future of Relationships

The quality of our lives depends on the quality of our relationships. Yet the expectations and social norms of these relationships are quickly shifting beneath our feet. A penetrating observer of cultural patterns, Esther explores the complicated and contradictory needs that are shaping relationships today. In this talk, she paves a path forward for thriving connections.


The Art of Leadership

According to national polls, the #1 reason workers leave their jobs is poor management, while studies show 70% of startups fail because of relationship conflicts between cofounders. Once considered a “soft skill” in the workplace, relational intelligence, is now one of the top determinants of business success. Building on more than 30 years of experience in individual and organizational consulting, Esther Perel shines a light on the art of modern leadership, the importance of relational intelligence in the workplace, and how leaders can reach new heights by rethinking how they connect.

Trust: The Pivotal Element of Your Company’s Success

Our lives are fueled by trust: in our loved ones, our colleagues, and our leaders. But how do we cultivate it, and restore if it's lost? Esther lays out the foundational elements of a crucial relational element that can be the determining factor between success and collapse.  

The Paradox of Security and Adventure

We all straddle two sets of opposing human needs: the need for stability and predictability, and the desire for what is exciting, new, and mysterious. From the bedroom to the boardroom, couples and family therapist Esther Perel tackles the big questions about our pursuit of passion and will arm you with actionable tools to cultivate erotic intelligence.

Esther in action

SXSW 2018

2017 PTTOW! Keynote

2015 TED: Rethinking Infidelity... A Talk for Anyone Who Has Ever Loved