It’s normal to experience occasional dry spells, but if we are to overcome sexlessness, we must learn to let go of inhibitions and embrace playful exploration. In The Desire Bundle, Esther Perel offers two back-to-back courses to help couples struggling to bridge their sexual impasses and achieve greater satisfaction. Together, these courses will help you and your partner remove sexual blocks, reignite desire, and play your way to a more erotically charged relationship.
In order to want sex, it needs to be sex worth wanting. These courses will help you and your partner identify and remove your unique erotic blocks, understand and expand each other’s desire, and create more pleasurable erotic experiences together. It’s a comprehensive resource that moves you both toward greater connection.
Desire and sexuality are influenced by every aspect of our lives. Each of you will uncover your unique erotic blocks and sexual stories so you can better understand, share, explore, and satiate your sexual appetites and preferences together.
Erotic couples understand that change happens when they focus more on what they want and enjoy than what they don’t want and don’t enjoy. Discover scripts to help you and your partner have these conversations with greater kindness, candor, and ease.
You can’t work your way out of sexlessness; desire requires playfulness and levity. Discover guided hands-on exercises and playful prompts to put your newfound knowledge into meaningful action.
Taught by Esther Perel
Desire comes and goes, but you have the ability to reignite the spark. These courses will give you the tools to understand your unique relationship with desire and harness the power of eroticism. Whether you feel stuck in a sexless relationship, frustrated by your new lack of desire, curious about how to have more honest conversations about sex, or excited by the idea of new possibilities—this course is for you.
Even couples that don’t “fight” have conflict. This course will show you how to embrace, work with, and better respond to disagreements when they arise.
Though it may feel risky to think about leaving your familiar routines, doing something risky together often generates excitement. Discover how to compound on this excitement to remove the barriers to sexual satisfaction and breathe new life into your daily routines and nighttime rendezvous.
Insecurity and vulnerabilities swirl around our sexual selves. Map your Erotic Blueprint to better understand each of your sexual histories, then discover and explore each others’ pleasure points with the help of self-reflective prompts and interactive exercises.
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- PERSPECTIVE-CHANGING LESSONS
- SELF-REFLECTIVE EXERCISES
- PLAYFUL PROMPTS AND IDEAS
- CONVERSATION CATALYSTS
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Frequently asked questions
Your purchase of The Desire Bundle includes access to both Bringing Desire Back and Playing with Desire for both you and your partner. We invite you to watch the videos in both courses together and share the log-in credentials, if necessary. We are not able to provide a separate log-in. If your partner requires access in a separate account, please have them purchase the bundle.
A relationship is made up of the people within it. When one of those people changes, the dynamic of the relationship also changes. If your partner is unwilling or unable to join you in learning about desire and eroticism, you will still benefit from learning this material on your own.
The courses inside The Desire Bundle are composed of a collection of pre-recorded videos from Esther and include a downloadable workbook. She will not be providing real-time therapy or feedback to course participants.
When you purchase The Desire Bundle, you'll receive access to two courses: Bringing Desire Back and Playing with Desire. Both courses include a collection of pre-recorded videos along with a robust workbook. We recommend that you start with Bringing Desire Back: Plan a time to watch each module and complete the accompanying workbook pages before moving on to the next module. When you’ve completed the course, move on to Playing with Desire.
If you are completing the courses with a partner, we suggest watching the videos together and working through the exercises individually. After you have both completed the exercises, come back together to share your responses and have a conversation about your answers and relationship.
If you treat these courses as entertainment to be consumed, you may find them entertaining and pick up some new perspectives along the way. On the other hand, if you treat them as a guide for engaging in new behaviors, thoughts, and ideas, and you take the time to complete each exercise in the accompanying workbooks, it’s our hope that you’ll learn something truly new, deeply interesting, and incredibly valuable that will help you navigate relationships of all kinds for the rest of your life.
Whether you binge both courses, only complete one of them, work through all the exercises as an intensive study for date night, or stretch out the courses and exercises over weeks or months is up to you. Do what is best for you
While many of Esther’s other materials touch on desire and eroticism, The Desire Bundle is a deep dive into understanding desire and enhancing eroticism. Through video lessons, guided exercises, and playful prompts, you’ll learn how to reignite desire and bring more aliveness, vitality, and spontaneity back into your sex life.
Bringing Desire Back is for individuals in relationships and romantic partners experiencing erotic blocks, lack of desire or desire discrepancies, or challenges in sexual communication who want to remove erotic blocks and reignite desire.
Playing with Desire is for individuals in relationships and romantic partners seeking to tap into new erotic possibilities and bring more aliveness, vitality, and spontaneity into the relationship.
Both courses are designed for people in relationships, though they can be taken with or without a partner.
For the most comprehensive resource, to help spark desire and reignite passionate play, we recommend enrolling in both.
As excited as we are to share The Desire Bundle with you, we believe the materials inside Rekindling Desire are more than enough to help you reignite desire and tap into new erotic possibilities. If you’re interested in learning more about desire and eroticism, we invite you to revisit the materials inside Rekindling Desire rather than purchasing this new two-course bundle. Click here to log in to your account and access those materials now.
Though you would likely benefit tremendously from these courses, The Desire Bundle is designed for people in relationships. It can be taken with or without a partner.
While The Desire Bundle is absolutely appropriate and supportive as a supplemental aid, I invite you to work with a trained relational psychotherapist and your medical provider for personalized support. If you wish to expand and enhance your experience of eroticism in its many forms (including the non-sexual), this bundle will help you remove the shame and stigma that often blocks erotic satisfaction and invite more playfulness into your relationship. Though I briefly acknowledge the many medical issues that may negatively influence desire in these courses, The Desire Bundle is not designed to diagnose or treat medical conditions.
The Desire Bundle is designed to help only those interested in reigniting desire and enhancing eroticism in their relationship. If you or your partner identify as asexual, know that asexuality is a legitimate sexual orientation; this lack of desire is not something to be overcome. However, it cannot be denied that one partner’s asexual identity can greatly impact a non-asexual partner. Though The Desire Bundle might help you navigate difficult conversations and bring new levity into your relationships, I invite you to instead consider working with a trained relational psychotherapist specializing in asexuality. They will be able to help you explore the many other arrangements that may be necessary for your unique situation.
You’ll always be welcome to take the second course when you’re ready; however, the bundle offer is only available when the courses are purchased together. If you’re committed to growth in your relationship in the field of eroticism and desire, the bundle offer is the best option.